If someone is going hot and cold, it didn’t come from them. It came from the state you were holding about them. They are not sitting around deciding whether or not to choose you. They are responding to the assumptions you’re unconsciously rehearsing. In your reality, you are the only thinker. Which means you are also the only one with creative power. The moment you stop wondering if you’re wanted and start moving as someone who is, the behavior has nothing left to mirror. You don’t fix this by c